Merav Tal

Dear Merav,

I am writing to you with a heart full of sorrow and empathy for everything you have endured. The pain and trauma you have experienced are beyond words and I want to extend my deepest condolences for the loss of Yair. I cannot imagine the anguish you must feel, knowing that Yair was taken from you so brutally and that his body remains held captive. Please know that my thoughts are with you during this incredibly difficult time.

I also want to acknowledge the unimaginable strength you have shown throughout this ordeal. To have survived such a traumatic experience and then face the news of Yair’s death requires a resilience that few could muster. The fact that you were reunited with Yagil and Or, even in such tragic circumstances, is a small light in this darkness and I hope their presence brings you some comfort and solace.

The days ahead will undoubtedly be challenging, as you navigate the grief of losing Yair and the ongoing pain of not having him properly laid to rest. Please remember that you don’t have to carry this burden alone. There are people who care deeply about you and who want to support you in any way they can. Allow yourself to lean on them, to grieve and to take the time you need to heal.

It’s okay to feel overwhelmed, to feel lost, or even angry at the injustice of it all. What you have been through is beyond what anyone should ever have to endure. Be kind to yourself and know that your feelings are valid and understood. The path to healing will be long but you don’t have to walk it alone.

Yair’s memory will live on through you, Yagil, and Or. The love you shared and the life you built together are things that cannot be taken away, even by the horrors you have faced. In time, I hope you find peace in the memories you hold and in the knowledge that Yair’s spirit continues to live on in those who loved him.

Please, take care of yourself, Merav. Know that many people are thinking of you, wishing you strength and holding you in their hearts during this incredibly painful time.

With deepest sympathy and support.

Jack

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